I was with my boyfriend for 9 months, I told myself not to fall in love for the fears of being hurt...but i did. I broke up with him last night b/c:
-He would never come to see me unless i pushed him to do so
-He made very little effort in the relationship
-He was always putting things before me
-HE NEVER had time for me cause he was constantly working
-He was always making promises of change.....the promises were very short lived
-We were always fighting
-He was always saying how much he cares, loves me, and misses me but would rarely show any of these things
-My friends hated him
-He didn't buy me a birthday present(5 months later now) even though he has the money
-He's called only 8 times sin we split. Shows how much he cares.
-He was barely even talking to me towards the end, very few texts and calls throughout the day
i just kind of need support. Bc i love him. I'm definitely a smart girl so I know breaking up with him was the right thing to do. But for some reason I find myself just upset and feeling so unappreciated and heartbroken.
need some advice.
Well, sounds like you two had many problems. Maybe you weren't right for each other. I think, personally, you made the right choice in dumping him. Fighting, and pushing him JUST to come see you is not worth your time. He sounds pretty careless and I think it's time you let this guy go. Eat a gallon of ice cream. Cry your heart out. Talk to your friends or parents about it. Allow yourself 48 hours to mope about it, then get out and do fun stuff to try to forget him. Sitting around and thinking about him for too long is going to make it worse. And in the last bit, you were right about being unappreciated. That's why you deserve someone better who WILL make you feel appreciated. You will meet that someone someday, I promise. Hope this helped and good luck hun