Me and my boyfriend have had a discussion, since we had that sex and theres a possobility that I could be pregnant we've decided to have a go at trying for a baby, I'm grown up and love children.. I'm ready to do this, I know what i'm sacraficin.. and I dont care, Nothing is going to make me change my mind, My mum and my sister nose and they told me aslong as its what I want, How do i start doing this?x
I read on your profile you're 15?
I can understand loving kids. I babysit a few and they are very loving but having one comes with a lot of responsibility.
At 15, you're not finished developing so the health risks are just a start.
I noticed you said you want the baby, he wants the baby. What about the baby? I know a few girls who got pregnant early and wish it never happened. The guys that swore up and down to stay never did. It's a lot of work. It's giving up your money, life, happiness, chance at a future, having fun, going out, etc to take care of a baby day and night. Have you ever changed a diaper? Disgusting. You'd be doing that a million times a day/night. Babies scream, cry, throw fits in public or not they don't care. They need and want that's all they understand. You'd be raising a child then what would happen to the kid?
You're mom may say that now but I have a feeling she might end up being involved in it. Babies are a blessing when you're ready to settle down and in love with a man.
My boyfriend works for his dad on his own business so money couldnt be a problem, also we've been together for two years and lost our virginitys together.. dont think he would be leaving me anytime soon espically when this was his idea, I love him so much we've got everything and a baby could make everything perfect,
I dont know 100% yet, we only had sex for like 5 minutes till we was intreupted but he did ejaculate up me.. and came on my peroid the next day for 3 days after that, and now feeling sick and dizzy but that could be anything, Im waiting for my peroid and if that comes then im not pregnant can you get pregnant a day before your pregnant?xx
Having a baby is not playing house! maybe ur b/f needs a puppy,ok?
Agreed. You're bf won't be carrying this baby around for 9 months. You can get pregnant anytime and you can also trick your body into thinking you're pregnant so you feel "symptoms" without realizing it. If that makes sense.
This most accurate way to find out would be checking with your doctor.
P.S. My dad owns a business as well and he's had shaky times. I wouldn't know where to pick up. I saw how real this was when I got my first "real" job at 16. Money won't always be steady without a steady family. In the end that's all that matters is that support and God who provides it all.