Hello,
Ok so it has been the roughest few weeks I think I have ever had in a relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and he is bipolar. He has been off his meds for a long time and I could not get him to go get help for meds. Anyways he also has a bad shoulder that dislocates (and no health insurance) and has taken a toll on him not only physically but mentally. Last night we left a hospital where they did not treat his shoulder correctly and it was still dislocated. He told me he was killing himself and would not get in my car to go home. I followed him for a while and then I lost him. I then started to panic thinking he was going to be found dead so I called 911. He eventually showed up and the police talked to him. Being that he has had 2 past suicide attempts he knew just what to say so that the police would not Baker Act him. My parents showed up and we got him to come home. After my mom left our place he went CRAZY! he yelled and screamed at me and said some of the worst things imaginable. He told me we were done and wanted to brake up with me because I violated his trust by calling my parents and 911. He walked out the door and I did not see where he went. For the first time I was afraid of him so I locked myself in my house and waited for my best friend to come. About 15 min past and then he came to the door, so I let him in. He had taken 100 plus Tylenol pills. I had no clue he had even taken the bottle out with him. I began to panic. He laid on the couch and told me he did not mean anything he said to me earlier that he just wanted me to hate him so I would let him die. I would never let anyone die!!!! I called 911 and they came and he cooperated. They took him to the hospital and pumped his stomach. He was Baker Acted and they reduced his shoulder back into it's joint. I went to visit him at the hospital today after my much needed therapist visit. he told me he was sorry and i accept his apology but I was not sure if we could be together. After talking with him 4 hours i t old him I loved him and wanted to be with him. But the only way we could ever have a healthy relationship was if he remained regulated on meds and got his life back together. I just want people to tell him what they think and give me some feedback. I am so depressed after this!