okay, i had the same problem with a boyfriend i used to have. he smoked all the time and thatnk god he never tried to get me to do it. But he smoked EVERYDAY and he smoked A LOT! we were all lovey dovey at first but then when we started fighting and he got mor aggressive everytime. I guess the only reason why i stayed was becuz his aggressiveness always led to making up even though sometimes i didnt want to make up. it got to the point to where i was doing things to please him and not myself. But i tried to explain to him that if he didnt stop he would learn the hard way.

My stepsons smoke pot in their bedroom and I ask them to respect the house and do it outside. Once a pot smoker always a pot smoker and it makes them all LIARS .I tell them I smell it when there burning in there room and they say were not doing that when there room looks like it's on fire . I have a son that did that but now he lives on his own he's 20 years old and finances are different when you live on your own . I have a Daughter , she's 7 and sees this daily but we tell her they are smoking cigars but still. I don't want her smoking anything especially pot . I told my eldest that if she ever did I would stop it before it would become a need to live each day like it is with them 2 little punks.Well I'm leaving now before I write a Book . Flash

I'm going through it right now! I don't know how you get through it. I'm at breaking point but have been here for quite some time. I'm alwas thinking about leaving and one day i think i will because it's too hard being with someone that is a pot head. it's not a real relationship. Not as good as it should be. I'm the one that's missing out. I have a son too though he's two and doesn't understand but i think my role is to protect him from his dad at this age. maybe someday his dad will quit and then will be the perfect daddy. It happened to me. my mum a junkie and now 20 yrs later reformed and my best friend.
You can't stop your guy. There are prob deeper issues He has to deal with. Maybe leaving is the answer. it could just frighten him. otherwise you'd prob be better off moving on darl. i know it's not nice to hear. i have the same advice given to me over and over. Once you believe you are worth ore you'll leave.
And remember, you can't save everyone.. especially if they don't truly want to be helped/

im in the same situation.. only when i first got involved with my boyfriend he lied & pretended he didnt smoke weed at all.. he actually quit doing it for me for 2 months..

then after spending 5 months long distance, i come back & he reverted back to his ways.. i thought i could learn to accept it & live with it but it was worse than i imagined.. he lost his temper worse than ever before & we argued almost everyday..

i stayed with him coz he would cry & say sorry & i felt sorry for him battling his addiction.. but when i tried to help him stop, he swore at me, he just put his addiction as his priority, before me..

now im expecting a baby, after 4 months of putting up with his lifestyle & trying to help him clean up.. now i have to put by baby first im leaving im not ever going back to him, id rather be a single mum & raise my child abuse free rather than with an abusive father. i dont care if he changes ill always remember how he wasnt there for us, how badly he treated me when i was pregnant with his child

Trust me ladies if you are in a relationship with a pot smoker please ask them to stop or end the relationship...It is bad stuff..the mem say oh its not bad at least its not cocaine etc...well it can have the same affect took over a long period...They become paranoid, obsessive,jealous and in some cases violent.
And they will not change without help...good luck to all..Jenny

none of them helped i want to know if i get pregnant of my boyfriend and he smokes weed will that affect my baby?

No hun it shouldnt effect your baby...weed does lower a mans sperm count but seen as though you are already pregnant....Just dont be around him when he does smoke it because you can inhale some and that isnt good for you or the baby...Jenny