Im a 22 year old girl, and I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years now. We have never had sex. His erections are too soft for intercourse. But he feels turned on with me, likes oral sex, and ejaculates also. Im feeling so frustrated. I dont enjoy being with him in bed. It feels like a punishment. I didnt even know it was a dysfunction until I spoke to my other friends who have had sex. He is only 22 years old. He wants to marry me. But he never talks about his problem. If I try talking to him about it, he brushes it off. Please help.
You are going to need to discuss this soon, this will not
make a good foundation for marriage if you can't resolve the issue first,it maybe something simple.
He really need to go to his local doctor and rule out any serious ongoing issues which can come from his problem also.
I am concerned that you are already having thoughts about the bad sex. You are very young and so is he, I would recommend to rule out any medical issues. If you think that lack of sex or bad sex will be a problem, then you need to cut your loses (spl) now or marry him knowing that the sex might not be great and hold a grudge or be resentful for your unfulfilled sex life.
I have the same problem. I get a erection and when ready to enter the vagina it goes limp. I can keep a erection and have a orgasm when my girlfriend gives me oral sex, but never can have intercourse. What is the matter with me?
ive been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years now. and we have never had sex. in fact, im still a virgin and almost 30years old. he had issues with sexual performance and erectile dysfunction. he hates talking about it and always changes the subject when I mention it or he gets so angry. im so sad, sexually frustrated and I question our attraction with eachother because we are not romantic nor sexual. I love him, and vise versa but not sure what to do also???