I went to the Philippines this year for a vacation and my mum got married, during my time there I met a guy, hes 18 and I'm 15 I don't think there's anything wrong with that, I really liked him when I was there and secretly he liked me too, he told me one day he like me when he went swimming with my family. We started spending time together and I fell in love with him, then we started dating.
He would come by the house all the time to see me and all that stuff... but I had to go back to Australia, we talked about it and long distance relationships. I can handle it, after a while... he said he wants to marry me when I'm 18! and he would be 21 or something, he really wants to marry me.. and I'm not sure about it.
I have heard stories that people from other countries like the Philippines use people to come to a better country because the Philippines is poor etc etc.. I think my boyfriend is just using me to come to Australia for a better life, I understand that. Because he's kinda poor himself, he asked for money once too, but I know he loves me but I'm worried that if he comes to Australia and finds another girl and leave me...
I don't know what to do! Does anyone have good advice?
#1, At your age marriage shouldnt even be a thought yet and if it is then 98% of the time things wont work out as planned by the time you turn 18.
#2, If there is ever any doubt in your mind about marrying someone (as there is in your case) then you most certainly shouldnt do it. If you did end up marrying this boy and you turned out to be right about him using you then odds are, your feelings for him will quickly change and you will regret your decision.