When you first find out your pregnant, the emotions that you feel are so intense some of the ones you feel you never knew that you could. Tell him that you are happy, and that this baby is going to be a blessing no matter how much he doesnt think so at the moment. I am sure that within time he will come around...once he sees that baby on the monitor when you get your first ultrasound...it will hit him, he will think thats amazing seeing something he created.
Fighting will not solve anything, especially when you are pregnant, so tell him you dont need it.
I hope all works out will you...best of luck!

wow that was such a lovely response thanks

we did go for the scan on monday but I suppose it was early days although we did see a heartbeat it was amazing

wish he shared my enthusiasm

wow that was such a lovely response thanks

we did go for the scan on monday but I suppose it was early days although we did see a heartbeat it was amazing

wish he shared my enthusiasm

wow that was such a lovely response thanks

we did go for the scan on monday but I suppose it was early days although we did see a heartbeat it was amazing

wish he shared my enthusiasm

Men are funny...Sometimes it takes a while for them to show their emotions...Hearing you speaking of the ultrasound makes me wish that years ago we had the privilege of seeing and knowing what you do now...I am sure that once he holds this precious creation that love has made, that he will marvel that this reflection of him is to be his legacy of the future....I envy you....

Take care,
Caroline

awwww hopefully he will come around soon. Give him a little time. Keep me posted and if you need anyone to talk to Just pm me, I am here!

i agree he may get excited later. i wanted to abort my child 13 years ago. i wasnt working, didnt have a place to stay, nor did i know how to change a diaper. my son was born w/o a dollar in my pocket. and i seen his little feet, penis, noise, and everything else and i as shocked and aw. im sure y'all might be fighting over baby names soon. it's a great experience. i was a single mom and i wouldnt take it back.
it's probably nervous, and scared.