My boyfriend isn't attracted to me anymore.

I don't know the answer to this, but what I do know, is that I'm going through the SAME EXACT THING! It sucks and I honestly don't know where to go from here. This weekend, my boyfriend and I were talking about the issue and I was saying how I was so upset and I just wanted him to open up and say how he feels and then all of the sudden, in a really upset/mad tone he said "LOSE WEIGHT!" It literally made me sick to my stomach. He knows I have been working out and trying to lose the weight that I have gained. I just feel so worthless to him now.

OMG !!! what a jerk !! I know how hurt you must've felt because I am being ignored and I just had twins by my man, so i am trying to workout and lose weight too !! this A hole knows you were trying to lose weight and still screamed those words to you ???...okay...achieve your goal and then kick his a@@ to the sidewalk !!

OMG !!! what a jerk !! I know how hurt you must've felt because I am being ignored and I just had twins by my man, so i am trying to workout and lose weight too !! this A hole knows you were trying to lose weight and still screamed those words to you ???...okay...achieve your goal and then kick his a@@ to the sidewalk !!

ok not sure if anyone out there can help me. I am 40 and my partner is 52. This is a second relationship for both of us. We are going on 4 years and our sex life has been in the crapper for about 18 months. We only have sex on average once every 2 weeks or less; and its not for lack of interest on my part, but I often get turned down when I try to initiate sex and a person can only take some much rejection. My boyfriend is either not attracted to me anymore or he's gay. Now the facts are I've gained 10 pounds since we've moved in together which was a little over 2 years ago, but my partner has also revealed that he is a cuckold and enjoys the idea of participating in sex with another man. I've indulged his fetch once or twice.. even watched while he sucked on another guys penis. I've discovered that whole idea is disturbing to me and I actually think he might be gay but just doesn't want to admit it. CAN ANYONE OUT THERE HELP ME?