My boyfriend of 3 years is 28. Our relationship is not good, im being constantly called a loser, psycho, etc as very often im reacting to his comments about my person. He is from NI im from Europe,he never had a stable job but he complains about be when its me who mostly provides for both of us. He spends most of his time at his mother house which makes me furious as i can't understand why a guy in that age having me don't want to spend a nice time with me. He prefers to insult me after i wake up, put me down like a piece of dirt and then split to his mom. I think he is doing this on purpose all the time. I feel really used. There is more, he constantly denies everything,small white lies constantly,all the time. Even when we have discussion about something he always disagrees, puts me down and blames me for creating quarells.He never kept any promise, never made me feel like a woman, he is very impulsive and agressive whilst talking to me. Please, can somebody explain me what is wrong with this guy? Thanks
Hun, I think its time for you to move on. Why would you want to stay in a verbally abusive relationship? You need to get out of that now, because it could turn into something much worse. Let him crawl back to his mommy and have her put up with his foul mouth! I hope you take my advice and ditch him...you could do better! Good Luck!
Thank you for all your replies:) There are absolutelly useful:)
Well, I need to tell you all that recently I put everything on one card. I have spoken to my boyfriend and said that even when we have quarrells (and as I know myself I am pretty loud myself) he should start shouting in the first place as he always does that without realising that it way too overboard; another thing I told him that he has no right to speak to me the way he wants and that from now on there will be serious consequences. Till recently I only told him things, but now I started actually doing what I always promised I will do if.....
Well, we will see, I don't worry too much as "there is so many fishes in the sea" that even if I love him there is no place for disrespect anymore!