cheating boyfriend depressed or bipolar ? Posted: 03-11-08 00:31am
Hi I am 27 and I recently found out that
my boyfriend has been cheating on me with
multiple people. To start off, we have
had a very rocky relationship from the
start where he had just come out of a 7 yr
relationship with his ex. We were
together for 4 years and I realized he had
a hard time committing to me. I
understood that he was scared of failure
again. I noticed that each woman he
cheated on me with knew of the problems we
had. He took the time to go in great
detail with them. Now I don't know if it
was a ploy to get them into bed feeling
sorry for him or if he was trying to find
a reason to be in bed with another woman.
What was his motivation and why did he
talk so negativley about me when he always
tells me he loves me and cares for me? Is
it possible he might be depressed or
bipolar?
Please help...any feedback would be
helpful.
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CarolDiane
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Posted: 03-20-08 12:08pm
Not necessarily. When you get a man on the
rebound you are playing with fire. Just
coming off of a marriage or relationship
always seems to bring trouble. But, there
are those that make it just fine. It could
be that he still has feelings for his X
and is unsure of any relationship right
now. I would have to venture to say that
does not mean he is Bipolar, just unsure
right now of anything.
