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Q: My boyfriend broke up with me over email
asked by: DollParts198 on October 11th, 2009
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I've been with him for over a year and for the past month we've been arguing almost constantly. I always tried to reach a compromise with him so the fighting would stop but he always resisted because he's stubborn and we pretty much got nowhere.

Yesterday I checked my emails after a blow-up we had that basically said "have a nice life." I tried to seem like I wasn't hurt so I just said good riddance. I've been compulsively checking my email since then, hoping he'll tell me that he wants me back and he didn't mean what he said. I know that isn't going to happen though. I feel so sick to my stomach just thinking about it. I want him back so badly but I don't know what to do. Should I contact him in a couple weeks and apologize and ask if we can start over? Should I just try to move on? I'm feeling ill just thinking about him not being around anymore.
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ServiceU
replied on October 24th, 2009
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i would just let him go. i stated with someone i didnt get along with and it's not pretty. i know you probably dont want to hear this but your heart will heal and you'll forget about him.
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W0LF
replied on October 24th, 2009
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Normally I think very poorly of people who break up over email. I think it's a weakness of character if you can't face up to the mistakes you've made that have hurt another person or to confront others who have wronged you.

However in this case I'm struck at how very smart your boyfriend was to break up with you from a different location. You two obviously argue very easily, which believe it or not is a sign of an intense love. You shouldn't fight if you didn't care. However it's no way to go through life. You can't be with someone else who's combative and I think he realized this. I think he logically looked at your relationship and he ended it in a way where you two couldn't fight further about things. I hope that you'll respect his moment of clarity and let him go. If it's any consolation, given your description of the fighting I'm sure he's checking his inbox too. This break-up is hard on you both but I think it's going to lead you to better relationships.
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J3nnyuk
replied on October 24th, 2009
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I agree with wolf on this...He was just trying to save you to arguing over something else...Just move on hun find someone who is better suited to you...Jenny
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