I am a gay male and I have been in a loving relationship with this guy for almost two years. Last week his father died and I didnt hear from my boyfriend in several days. I felt like I was being pushed away. He finally called me and told me that a long time friend that he had just got back in touch with after many years is going to move in with him and his mother. This friend of his was there for my boyfriend's mother after his father died so my boyfriends mother wanted him to move in. The problems is that my boyfriend told me a few weeks ago that he had had a crush on his friend a long time ago before he met me and that he was tempted to cheat on me after he hit on him. But anyway my boyfriend told me that he just wants to be friends because the death of his father really screwed him up. Im really upset and I dont know what to do. I want to be there for him but at the same time Its a VERY uncomfortable situation being around his friend whom I have never met before. I still love my boyfriend but I know things are already set in motion for him and his friend to start a realtionship. Especially after helping him cope with his father's death. I dont know what to do.