Arhh NO! You are not wrong. You know that is a form of cheating don't you. Just because it's not face to face it's still wrong in my opinion. Tell him you know and tell him to stop doing it as it is hurting you.

i agree..i would not be ok with my boyfriend checkin some girl out on youtube and sayin "hollaback" and "everything on you is perfect"..um...dont think so buddy..everything on ME better be perfect and if it is then you shouldn't be lookin up other girls tellin them to "hollaback"...not ok...set some boundaries

I would have said are you kidding me Everything is perfect on you hollaback what kind of bs is that You are not going to tell NO Other woman that she is perfect the one only perfect women is me because other wise we got problem and its You, Stop disrepecting me and those messages make me mad and annoyed you have got boundaries starting to day(punish him make him feel your pain)

I have to agree put your foot down it sounds like he is testing the water to see what he can get away with. I am sorry but if my hubby did that i would figuratively put his balls in a vice, you need to make him understand that you will not tolerate him disrespecting you and that you better be perfect the only perfect women in his life or else ..... Yeah the hollaback With me and my hubby he may look but dont touch or communicate with the chicks this way he doesnt feel so trapped he likes the rule and he respects the rules and knows that if breaks the rules that I will drop him like he was yesterday I have been with him for almost 5 and half years That is along time and I truly know him. He said that your boyfriend isn't respecting you and you need to speak up for yourself and dont let him get away with treating you like that if he cant understand tell him not to hollaback at you

when i found out, i was very very angry and he knew it. i told him exactly why and confronted him about it. then i told him i deleted his youtube account, because if you dont have an account you cant view the kind of videos he was looking at, so he doesnt have an account anymore. which he is fine with. he was ashamed of himself and i dont mean to make him feel bad for watching porn sometimes when im not there, but to me, youtube and porn are two different things. because people on youtube are real and you can actually talk to them and people in porn, well he would never be able to talk to them, so i dont mind that too much. but i set him straight and he understands how i feel and knows what will happen if he ever does ANYTHING like that again. and he also knows that i find out everytime when something is going on. i just get this feeling. lol its weird but i just know.

His biggest mistake was in letting you find out about it. If you didnt know
it woud'nt have mattered.
I think this is just a thrill type of thing and nothing to worry about though i dont agree with the Hollaback part. Complimenting someone on their beauty or body is one thing but Hollaback is potentially getting involved with them.

Don't be too harsh on him but let him know you dont like this sort of thing.
He may be your bf, but he is not dead and you dont own him.

deleting his account wont get rid of the problem..he can simply create another....so i hope he takes it to heart how you feel about this and stops doing it because if not as spanky said, you dont own him so deleting the account is more just to make you feel better I guess...