I just wanted some advice on how I should go on after I dumped well ex boyfriend now. He scared me with pretending to be police and did not take the break up well as I messaged the girl. However, that is done and finished now, but I am feeling hurt and have never felt something like this. It does hurt he was playing me the whole time. However, I am glad I got out of the relationship, but now I am trying to get over the pain and the time I gave to him. How long does it take to really get over this? I know I have to keep busy with university, and other things. But getting over this is a lot harder than I expected. Its clear I won't come back to this guy, but I didn't expect to feel so hurt. I know its not my fault to begin with that he cheated right from the start and that he has personal issues to deal with and what goes around comes around.