WOW...we are in a similar position.
I was diagnosed with BP II last year and have been on 8 meds since. Nightmare!!!
Here's the list:
Lamictal
Wellbutrin
Effexor
Seroquel
Ativan
Lexapro
Trazodone
Wellbutrin (for a 2nd time)
I now take Lamictal (this is the one med I have consistently taken) and have taken up to 200 mg for a short time. I started Wellbutrin XL 300mg for almost a month now.
I have noticed basically nothing on Lamictal, like taking a vitamin. I have had bad side affects with anti-depressants...fall asleep 20 mins after taking. Wellbutrin seems to not do this.
However...since starting Wellbutrin, I have noticed no impact...if anything I am more depressed. Hard to tell if this is circumstantial or just the meds.
I tried to get off all meds and detox my system before starting Wellbutrin. I was down to 50mg of Lamictal and noticed I wanted to drink beer again after stopping for almost a year. This concerned me, so I stayed at 50 and up's to 75. Now I am at 100mg.
This med thing is a wild circus act. I have been greatly UNIMPRESSED with any of them thus far. I can't imagine doing this20 years ago. If this is progress, then there is A LOT of way to go. Then again, maybe it's just me.