Yeah no matter what happens you will have
to get a paternity test to prove to him
that he is the dad even though you know he
is. Some people won't believe anything
unless there is a test and proof and in
writing.
Haha, I know what you mean. Guys usually
aren't thinking about a possible pregnancy
when they have sex. But when I'm in that
situation, that's all I can think about
It's too bad he's treating you like this.
I don't believe in abortion either. Being
a single mother would be really hard too,
but then again, you might just love your
baby enough to do that. If it doesn't
work out, there's alway adoption. As for
the child wondering who its father is,
it's not really a big deal. There are a
lot of children who have the same
problem...it's not unchartered waters.
I hope all this gets resolved for you.
Babies are really precious thing and it's
terrible that the miracle of life has to
be marred by selfish people like your BF.
After the baby is born tho, there is
nothing like the joy you feel when you
look at your baby smiling up at you even
when you are the saddest.
I know
who the father is but he has'nt spoke to
me in about 3 months it seems like he is
basicly avoiding me never answering my
calls. My best friend called and he
automaticly answered it's very suspicous
and upseting to me. They got it in his
head to call me but he left a message
saying that if i am it is'nt his. He was
the last person i had sex with so i know
for shure he is the father i really don't
know what to do. I don't think he would be
a good father or even cares any advice
please?
