my son started dating a girl on 2/14/08 began sexual activity end of feb. first of march, broke up with her end of june on aug. 7 he got a call from her saying she gave birth to a baby girl and its his. she said it was 2 mo premature and weighed 7lbs. if im correct this still doesnt add up, the baby would be at least 3mo premature, and it shouldnt have been that big and healthy. the mother is a full figured girl, and said she didnt know she was pregnant until arriving at er to deliver. when actually i believe she was already pregnant when meeting my son, and affraid to tell her parents, because they didnt know she was sexually active prior to my son. we have asked for a paternity test but she refuses, and she lives in a state that wont make her unless she wants to seek child support. please help me with this one we need to know if he is the father. does it add up and is it possible????