okay just to say, i've been sexually active for about 3 years now. I've hardly ever used a condom. I just always hated the way they felt and i never thought id need them. That's stupid i know. RECENTLY, about two weeks ago. I've been involved with a new girlfriend. I was slightly sick sometime around that time, not sure exactly when. I'm concerned because i've had very slight cases of just about every symptom i've read about HIV. Only the nodes under my chin were swollen, for about 2 days. Nowhere else on my body. Just this week i've noticed the very middle of my chest is itching, there are only tiny tiny little bumps. I scratched them and they are more like a few tiny scabs. I have a few things that feel like pimples that are closer to my jaw line on my neck. Okay, so, my question is. Could these be due to mono? Because i know for a fact i was introduced to that. I know the only way is to get tested but i'm so worried and i don't even really know how to go about it.