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Q: mom wants abortion
asked by: babygirl24 on July 19th, 2008
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hi my mom is all up for like birth control, a iuv,or something like that.but honestly im not i feeel like if its god well i will get pregant and if i dont want a baby i should use protection.i have tried to tell my mom but theres no other way to get to her..any advice...
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Carifairy
replied on July 19th, 2008
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Yes, I have advice.

IF you have sex you will get pregnant!

Unless you use birth control, you will get pregnant MANY times.
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Sydney123456
replied on July 19th, 2008
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I'm being nitpicky: you were stating very SERIOUS facts, but no real advice. g2r

WHY WOULD YOU NOT BE PROTECTED? Those statements made by Carifairy...VERY REAL. You will get pregnant. You're young...you need to figure YOURSELF out before you bring someone else into the world. If you are not protected and you get pregnant, you are doing yourself a disservice (not to mention doing the CHILD a disservice).

Why wouldn't you want to be protected now, and choose the best possible time to have a child? Let me tell you honey...in high school is not the best time possible.

What does your boyfriend say? Does he support this too?

It just seems to me you are being selfish when you say this. You aren't considering the lives that are extremely effected by the simple decision to NOT put on a rubber/take a pill/get a shot/etc.
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AyaMiyaki
replied on July 19th, 2008
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If you're not okay with birth control, you really need to abstain from sex. If it was truly God's will for you to get pregnant, he'd find a way to get you pregnant. Remember how Mary conceived Jesus?

You need to protect yourself. An IUD will protect you from pregnancy for years! This is time you can spend on your education, getting into a good college, establishing yourself in the world. You can put money aside, move out on your own, build your credit, buy a house, settle down... and when the time's right for you to have a baby, you'll be in the best position possible to give your baby everything he or she deserves. Can you honestly say you can do that right now?

If you got pregnant right now, it wouldn't be because it was God's will. It would be because you were too stubborn to listen about birth control and you put YOURSELF in that situation. I think deep down you know that. You need to stop and think about what you truly want, and then think about what your baby DESERVES. A good mother doesn't put her wants above her child's needs. A good mother doesn't choose a poor future for her child on purpose.

One little piece of plastic can not only protect you from pregnancy and give you a great shot at a bright future, but it'll ensure that you won't bring a child into this world before you're prepared for one. It's the most loving thing you can do for your future baby - give him/her a strong, confident mother who's actually able to take care of him/her without relying on others to help her.

Listen to your mother.
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