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Mom is a Paranoid schizophrenic and refuses to take treatment

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My mother has been recently diagnosed as a paranoid schizophrenic, and we have been battling with this illness for about 6 months ago. Before she finally fell off the deep end, and had her first psychotic episode, she lived alone while working a full-time job, had an apartment, a new car, and lived a very normal life. Something finally pushed her over, and she has literally lost everything. It was one big snowball affect that took a whole TWO MONTHS to complete ruin her life. She lost her job, got evicted out of her apartment, and had her car repossessed. She was paranoid about her family, thinking we were trying to poison her and kill her. She has no family that she could live with, and I am her daughter is off at college living in a student apartment. She refuses to follow up with her doctor, and is given only a week "trial" medication, and then doesn't go back to get another prescription!!! She has been baker acted 5 times total, because she refused to admit her strange behavior, and her delusions and hallucinations were taking over her life.

She has been homeless now for 4 months, and is living in and out of hotels that we pay for, and then at the salvation army. She becomes paranoid about the S.A. and the people that live there with her. She has made a friend that has been literally keeping her alive these last 4 months. He talks to her, keeps her eating (because she won't eat by herself), makes sure she stays clean, and tries to help her through her schizophrenia, because she refuses to get treatment. He just told us tonight that he cannot keep doing this with her, and it has become to much for him to take care of. He is leaving her tomorrow, and never coming back. My question is what can we do to put her somewhere that is stable that will get her the help she needs and the also give her medication and therapy she needs to become functional. We have tried everything we know in the legal system (i.e. baker act, involuntary examination etc.) but since she is over 18, laws are difficult to force her into treatment without her consent(which she will NOT do). What can we do to help her because GOD knows she won't take any steps to help herself? I'm afraid if we don't find some kind of hope we are going to loose her forever. Whether that be she ends up dead or killing herself because she is depressed. Help us with something we are not seeing, or we don't know.
Please and thank you!!!!!!!
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replied September 9th, 2012
I can't help you cause I'm in the same situation... Mom's seek my sibilings and I live with her and we try to help her but she doesn't want to get help. She's been having an episode since the morning. I'm feeling really bad right now. I feel your pain, you're not alone, be strong, I wish you the best.
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replied September 12th, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. Well done for joining this forum. You're already taking the first positive step towards getting your mom treated.

Have you spoken to a GP, doctor or psychiatrist about your mom's situation? Each country has their own jurisdictional rules regarding getting treatment for medical conditions such as schizophrenia.

My husband and my family saw me deteriorate so badly that I needed to go to hospital for a few weeks a few years ago and was immediately put on anti-psychotics and an anti-depressant (Zyprexia & Lexapro). I tried to run away while in hospital as I thought the hospital were trying to poison me. I was diagnosed a paranoid schizophrenic & was immediately stabilised on Zyprexia & then Ambilify (latter has less side effects i.e., weight gain etc).

Prior to my first psychotic episode I was a high functioning mother (Director in an investment bank) who would have lost everything if my husband had not intervened quickly.

I would reach out to an online doctor on this website to find out what are your real options given the fact that your mom is an adult etc. It's likely that the doctors will want more specific examples of your mom's behaviour to give you an online diagnosis of schizophrenia.

Good luck & continue to be brave with your mom. If she is schizophrenic, there are many support groups that you could join on top of blogging the forums internationally.
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replied September 12th, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. Well done for joining this forum. You're already taking the first positive step towards getting your mom treated.

Have you spoken to a GP, doctor or psychiatrist about your mom's situation? Each country has their own jurisdictional rules regarding getting treatment for medical conditions such as schizophrenia.

My husband and my family saw me deteriorate so badly that I needed to go to hospital for a few weeks a few years ago and was immediately put on anti-psychotics and an anti-depressant (Zyprexia & Lexapro). I tried to run away while in hospital as I thought the hospital were trying to poison me. I was diagnosed a paranoid schizophrenic & was immediately stabilised on Zyprexia & then Ambilify (latter has less side effects i.e., weight gain etc).

Prior to my first psychotic episode I was a high functioning mother (Director in an investment bank) who would have lost everything if my husband had not intervened quickly.

I would reach out to an online doctor on this website to find out what are your real options given the fact that your mom is an adult etc. It's likely that the doctors will want more specific examples of your mom's behaviour to give you an online diagnosis of schizophrenia.

Good luck & continue to be brave with your mom. If she is schizophrenic, there are many support groups that you could join on top of blogging the forums internationally.
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