can i use nivea moisturiser for lube? i Have once before and it was the best mastubate ever! it feels so much better being able to rub the head properly, but i'm worried this may have a negative effect if i do it again :S
Skin moisturizer is actually pretty tough on skin. It defeats the skin's natural process of maintaining suppleness and softness. It creates a cycle of needing to use moisturizer to combat the dryness that moisturizer causes. Some of them also contain alcohol or purfumes that might irritate the urethra. More irritating that harmfum though.
I'd reccomend a sexual lubricant. It is designed to lubricate a penis and keep it slick for the duration of a male arousal and orgasm. I haven't shopped around much recently but I believe it's acutally a little cheaper than skin lotion as well.
As a masturbation lube, I use "Udderly Smooth" udder cream. It's available at Wal-Mart and other such stores. It's long lasting, easily absorbed into the skin and leaves no residue. Another I've used is Albolene Moisturizing Cleanser. It's good as a sex lube too, but is a petroleum based product, so does not work well with condoms. It is a long-lasting lube and seems to awaken the sensitivity of the skin's receptors which enhance the pleasure somewhat.
Strawberry Astroglide is awesome...Leaves a great taste for a man if he goes back to giving her more oral sex after penetration...I think with a smell like this going into her, that it makes a woman feel very erotic....Helps the mood.....