Moderates: Reaching Both Sides Posted: 03-16-08 21:55pm
I've long known I am a political moderate;
I'm very liberal on some things but quite
conservative on others. I say and think
things that offend both sides.
I believe that being a moderate also
carries over to the abortion debate.
My question is thus written in the poll.
Do you consider yourself a "Pure" member
of each side, an "Extremist", or a
"Moderate"?
Extremist: You uphold ALL the ideals of
your side, almost to a flawed level. You
will absolutely not consider the other
side's opinions, and some of your views
are so extreme they are frowned upon by
others on your side. You are unwilling to
compromise no matter what. You're the
person that gets on the news and spreads
bad press.
Pure: You uphold the ideals of the side.
However, you're not excessive about it and can
occasionally understand the other side. In
the end, you are unwilling to compromise
in most cases unless it's a really good
reason. You are what most people think of
when they ponder the issue at hand. You
often have to fight against the
stereotypes caused by the extremists.
Moderate: You uphold most of the ideals of
the side, but definitely not all. You may
have differing opinions from many of the
members, and they may in fact say you are
a member of the "other" side because of
these dissenting opinions. You sympathize
with the other side and can understand
their points of view. You are willing to
compromise on the particular issues that
you are moderate on. With other issues,
you may be as stubborn as an Extremist.
I'm not quite sure where to put myself,
largely due to semantics. I don't think
that there is such a thing as an extreme
pro-choicer: if you support the legality
of abortion and consider it to be an issue
decided solely by the female involved (in
other words, you don't feel women should
have to give a reason to justify their
termination), then you can't really get
any more extreme, even though that view
itself is not extreme.
I guess it all has to do with the nuances
of the word extreme. It is generally
considered to be a very bad thing, but if
my own stance, which is based 100%,
unexceptionally on choice, is
considered "extreme", then I view it as a
great thing. You define "extremist" as
someone who doesn't consider the views of
the other side. Well, I do. I do so because
of choice. Because I respect it and I
believe that every woman can choose what
she desires for her body and her
pregnancy; this not necessarily being
abortion.
However, as I say, I don't really think
there is such a thing as an extreme
pro-choicer in the same way as we have
extreme pro-lifers.
I don't know if pure is the appropriate
word, either. I'm not attempting to turn
this into some politically-motivated
semantics war, I just don't see the need
for the re-branding of fine, existent
terms. I'm a pro-choicer, and that
suffices for me. I don't have to (and
certainly shouldn't have to) explain 'what
kind' of pro-choicer I am; I'm just
pro-choice. I support the right of every
female to choose what
exists inside her body. It's a very
generic description, but it covers all
corners of the debate and the pro-choice
values I espouse.
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Posted: 03-17-08 06:43am
I agree with Kypros that being absolutely
in favour of the woman's right to choose
isn't exactly "extreme" , and it does of
course consider the "other side" since it
allows any individual to be absolutely
opposed to abortion for any reason, for
themselves.
But instead of "extreme pro-choice" why
not have something more similar to
"extreme pro-life": I actually think that
abortion should be much more strongly
encouraged and promoted, so I would
describe myself as "pro-abortion" . In my
view, there are way too many unplanned
pregnancies carried to term. While
obviously these pregnancies should be
stopped before they happen by better use
of birth control, I think that the option
of abortion should be much more readily
available and encouraged. The "choice" of
women to have babies they cannot care for
or afford to look after should be made
more difficult.
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Posted: 03-17-08 10:41am
I think I can add "Pro-Abortion" to the
list, and I'll use your definition if you
don't mind!! It's right on the number!
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Posted: 03-17-08 10:42am
Oh whoops, should've edited before I
posted lol. Oh well.
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Posted: 03-17-08 12:31pm
Moderate Pro-Lifer..I think everyone knows
my opinion and why by now.
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Posted: 03-17-08 13:47pm
I'd consider myself a pure pro-choicer. I
don't have any specific reason why, other
than that's the definition I find most
fits me, and I appeal to the most.
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Posted: 03-17-08 20:19pm
manuftw82
wrote:
Moderate Pro-Lifer..I think
everyone knows my opinion and why by
now.
Clarify anyway! Are you ok with abortion
in the early months? For
rape/disease/harm? Teens?
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Posted: 04-16-08 22:25pm
i am against abortion, because it kills a
child. If the woman did NOT have an
abortion, in nine months she will have a
little child in her arms. Isn't that sad?
When you have an abortion, it is obvious
it kills a child. I wouldn't kill any
child, human or unborn.
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Posted: 04-16-08 23:43pm
Yes, it is sad, but sometimes it is the
best choice.
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rainstorm
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Posted: 04-17-08 01:24am
How about asking another question, how
much of her own body does a woman own? A
man owns 100% of his body.
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Posted: 04-17-08 08:57am
rainstorm
wrote:
how much of her own body
does a woman own? A man owns 100% of his
body.
Fantastic. I'd like to have that framed.
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Posted: 04-17-08 09:07am
It's not a simple issue and you cannot
simplify it like that. When you do so you
are as bad as a pro-lifer saying that all
abortions kill full term fetuses.
A woman owns all of her body - but a fetus
is not HER body. "It doesn't have a right
to control her body whine!". It's not. HER
body is supporting IT. Her MIND may not
be, but her body IS. "It doesn't have a
right to be inside of her!" Why are we
even discussing such a weird concept? It's
a pregnancy; not a full grown human.
Again, a pregnancy is SUPPOSED to be
inside of her - I'm feeling that this
supercedes any "rights" one would place
over a normal born human - because a fetus
is NOT born.
I'll try to rephrase. A born human
wouldn't be able to hole up inside of a
uterus. It would be violating the woman's
rights. A fetus is MEANT to live inside of
her uterus, thus it has a right to be
there.
Abortion is still the right choice in many
cases. But I really prefer to look at it
from the point of view of "How fair would
life be for the child"? rather than "Waah,
my body is doing what it's made to do I
hate it kill the parasite!"
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Posted: 04-17-08 09:53am
Tylanas
wrote:
A woman owns all of her body
- but a fetus is not HER body.
A fetus is IN her body and like any other
foreign entity draining her resources, she
has the right to expel it just like a man
has the right to expel a tapeworm. If men
were the ones to incubate offspring we
wouldn't even be having this debate. It
would be an unquestioned right from
puberty until death.
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Posted: 04-17-08 09:55am
Tylanas
wrote:
A woman owns all of her body
- but a fetus is not HER body. "It doesn't
have a right to control her body whine!".
It's not. HER body is supporting IT. Her
MIND may not be, but her body IS. "It
doesn't have a right to be inside of her!"
Why are we even discussing such a weird
concept? It's a pregnancy; not a full
grown human. Again, a pregnancy is
SUPPOSED to be inside of her - I'm feeling
that this supercedes any "rights" one
would place over a normal born human -
because a fetus is NOT born.
Does a woman own her uterus?
Tylanas
wrote:
I'll try to rephrase. A born
human wouldn't be able to hole up inside
of a uterus. It would be violating the
woman's rights. A fetus is MEANT to live
inside of her uterus, thus it has a right
to be there.
How do you justify early term abortions?
Tylanas
wrote:
Abortion is still the right
choice in many cases. But I really prefer
to look at it from the point of view of
"How fair would life be for the child"?
rather than "Waah, my body is doing what
it's made to do I hate it kill the
parasite!"
Having never faced an unwanted pregnancy,
you feel free to mock those who have with
these comments flavored with whininess. I
think Jesus' bootcamp is not going well
for you. Perhaps his followers will be
better served than Siddhartha was,
anyways.
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Posted: 04-17-08 10:28am
Birch I have to say, you're a cool
customer. I run into difficulty with
people when they insist on attempting to
rape me (and yes as a survivor I say now
this is accurately how I feel) with their
"morals". I admire you. I tend to view
those who attack my bodily rights as
rapists and the tortures I'd like to put
rapists through don't bear repeating here.
You are awesome.
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rainstorm
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Posted: 04-17-08 11:11am
Darkmoon, there is no such thing as
"rape". A man's penis is "supposed to be"
inside of your vagina.
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Darkmoon, praise from you is highly
valued! Thank you!
rainstorm
wrote:
Darkmoon, there is no such
thing as "rape". A man's penis is
"supposed to be" inside of your
vagina.
Touche'!!!
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Posted: 04-22-08 10:49am
rainstorm
wrote:
How about asking another
question, how much of her own body does a
woman own? A man owns 100% of his
body.
ok this is simple science: the fetus's
body isn't her body! She does too, but she
has no rights over someone else's.
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rainstorm
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Posted: 04-22-08 14:40pm
jujujellybean
wrote:
rainstorm
wrote:
How about asking another
question, how much of her own body does a
woman own? A man owns 100% of his
body.
ok this is simple science: the fetus's
body isn't her body! She does too, but she
has no rights over someone
else's.
If I own my uterus that means I can
control whether or not it is full or
empty.
And if it is simple science that the fetus
is not part of her body, lets see a
scientific explanation. Don't bother with
the "unique DNA" argument, because every
single egg cell in a woman's body has
unique DNA. Also, there are people who
have two sets of DNA, the are called
chimeras. Finally, since twins, triplets,
etc. have the same DNA, does that mean
they aren't really more than one person?