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SweetKaran

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Posted: 04-17-08 07:24am

Hi everyone!

Since forever, I always be the passive one during intercourse. I don't like being on top and when I do, I can't keep the movement that long (I'm not fat for your information) and I don't get any pleasure at all. I wonder if this normal, since I assume many women DO like it on top!

I'm bored with the same position every time (missionary) but that's the only position where I feel pleasure from.. is there anything wrong with me?
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xbostonx

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Posted: 04-18-08 12:30pm

no i don't think that there is anything wrong with you. I think you should try other positions though. Ever try doggy style? or if you don't like laying down on top of him you could try having your boyfriend sit on the couch and you go on top that way? Being fat has nothing to do with it. I'm chunky myself and i have a great sex life. hopefully this helps
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Georgia59

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Posted: 04-18-08 14:44pm

It's not weird or anything, different strokes for different folks. There probably is an anatomical reason that you like it better though, maybe there's more pressure in a certain area when he's on top. You could try to figure out what that is and recreate the same pressure in other positions (for example, you on top, but leaning forward so you're laying on him or both of you sitting with your legs wrapped around eachother)
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SweetKaran

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Posted: 04-21-08 12:16pm

Hi everyone!

Thanks for your reply. Im glad that I'm not weird or anything. I was wondering maybe it's because I always do that same position (almost all the time) since forever... my husband is the only one I've been with and I was wondering that the inside of my vagina might used to that same position over and over again and that's why I get no pleasure from other positions.

We tried doggy now and then but I don't like it that much Embarassed
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Rosie H

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Posted: 04-21-08 12:42pm

you could try spooning. its more romantic I guess than doggie style. Its where you are laying down on your side and he is laying next to you on his side. He then enters you from behind. But you can hold hands and kiss still. Its very cozy and it feels really good. Its not uncomfortable like doggy style either. Maybe you could try that?
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Dreadmuse

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Posted: 04-22-08 08:15am

Try something completely different... Look up some information on Shabari (Japanese rope bondage). In my shows and private life I use a very simple body harness, it does not restrict movement and keeps your arms and legs free... The advantage of the harness are many.

1. multiple grab locations to make yourself, or your partner more manuverable.
2. anchor points (if you are into bondage)
3. and this is the one that might help you... Happy knots...
What is a happy knot?
in the tying of the harness, the rope is brought up in knots, between the legs. If properly positioned, the happy knot will rest close enough to the clitoris to stimulate, but not directly on top of (which would irritate). Every move you make will give you the external stimulation that you are probably only gettig from yoru current missionary position...

If you want more information on such techniques, let me know...

however... if you have never tried this sort of thing before... dont do it without discussing it with others and having done a great deal of research. People tend to take things too far and people get hurt (or worse) because basic safety is not used.

The Dreadful Muse
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SweetKaran

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Posted: 04-23-08 15:23pm

Thanks for your info about this bondage thingy. But it sounds so complicated I don't even want to try it.. lol. We barely have quality time to spend with each other, let alone tieing each other in knots before sex.... haha.. if you have children you might understand.

People who do those things seems to have a lot time in their hands.. which I don't have.. ;p
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Georgia59

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Posted: 04-23-08 17:23pm

lol
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Dreadmuse

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Posted: 04-25-08 08:14am

SweetKaran wrote:
Thanks for your info about this bondage thingy. But it sounds so complicated I don't even want to try it.. lol. We barely have quality time to spend with each other, let alone tieing each other in knots before sex.... haha.. if you have children you might understand.

People who do those things seems to have a lot time in their hands.. which I don't have.. ;p



LOL... I understand completely... I have 4 children...

I often felt the same way... the body harness is very easy. easily covered by a robe (it doesn't bind your arms or legs) and can be done as part of foreplay...

It is hard to get the time... that I do know... best of luck to you... if you do have any questions... drop me a message.

The Dreadmuse
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