Missionary position intercourse problem Posted: 03-13-08 11:43am
Hi,
I am married person(4 years). I never had
sex before my marriage.
Since the first day of our intercourse i
dont feel comfortable with missionary
position(man on top). I need to hold my
penis ( i guess erectile problem) in one
hand during intercourse, so it is very
difficult to maitain balance of my body
and made me very uncomfortable . As a
result i loose my excitation very quickly
and fail to ejaculation. On the other hand
when my wife is in top i still need to
hold my penis during intercourse but at
least we can continue till my ejaculation.
Now we are trying for a baby and we read
in different website that missionary
position is the best for baby making
intercourse. But this position is not
suitable (as i mention above). We are
desperately need a baby now and my wife is
kind of depressed now. Can anyone help me
please. Should i see a doctor?
Thanks
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MiseEire
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Joined: 17 Jan 2008 Posts: 170
Posted: 03-13-08 13:12pm
You're only describing two positions out
of literally hundreds. Best position for
me is from behind "doggystyle". It allows
for the deepest and most comfortable
penetration. Some people aren't into it I
guess (petty inhibitions IMO) but if
you're trying for a baby, it might be
worth a try.
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antigone
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Posted: 03-13-08 13:26pm
The only reason missionary position is
advantageous for impregnating your wife is
that gravity does not come into play in
that position. This position will allow
the semen to stay in the vaginal cavity
where other positions allow the semen to
drip out. It does not require much semen
to get a woman pregnant if she is fertile.
She can still get pregnant with the woman
on top position. Rear entry or doggystyle
can work well too. The main thing is if
you want to achieve pregnancy you need to
have intercourse and ejaculate in your
wife. Whatever gets the job done is what
you should do.
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marvel
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Posted: 03-13-08 17:13pm
I think you should try a variety of
positions to see what works best with you.
The best position for pregnancy is the one
that will actually allow you ejaculate
inside of her. So try different techniques
and see what works best for you.
