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Q: miserable in love

asked by: orthogirl on May 6th, 2008

Experienced User

so, i've been in a relationship with this guy for the past year and a half. he has a temper and he blows everything out of proportion and when he does.. it makes me completly lash out. i turn into this angry person that i don't like.. AND THEN he treats me great. he's only romantic when i am being a bytch.. but, that is not how i want to be. when i am being a good person.. the person that i want to be, i get no respect. i am miserable because of it. what do i do in this situation? is it something that can be worked on or do i call it quits? i'm deeply depressed.

Replies(8)

nightangel73

replied on May 6th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

Call it quits!! My mother in law had a man like that, they lived in miserable marriage for 20 years, lost her retirement money on lawyers and ultimatetly waisted her life with him. Pretty sad. So better calling it quits from the begining before you suffer for the long haul.

orthogirl

replied on May 6th, 2008

Experienced User

thank you so much for the advice!!! i left him today and i'm not looking back. it really does hurt, though..

Willa Weintraub

replied on May 9th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

Re: miserable in love

orthogirl wrote:

i am miserable because of it. what do i do in this situation?

Read everything you wrote before you asked this question and there is your answer. 'Miserable' and 'in love' do NOT belong in the same sentence.

Fairy Godmother

replied on May 9th, 2008

Supporter

Hi Sweetie! Me Fairy*Godmother

Life is too short......you've wasted a year and a half.........get out there girlfriend and find true happiness...............what are you waiting for? Don't sit around and let life pass you by......can't get time back.......You have to make yourself happy, we can't rely on anyone else for this.....and once you are happy, you will be happy in a relationship! HUGS!

Rosie H

replied on May 9th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

I think you made the right choice. Its gonna hurt in the beginning but time will heal your heart. You spent a year 1/2 of your life with him, of course you are going to miss all the good fun times you had. But when you start to become lonely or miss him just think of how bad he made you feel. In no time you will be out there again.

There are great guys out there that will love you for the real you!

Willa Weintraub

replied on May 9th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

Good job leaving him! You deserve way better than that! The hurt will be htere but it will subside after a while. You'll be ok Smile

Aunt WeeWee

replied on May 22nd, 2008

Experienced User

Try telling him how you feel and if that dosnt work, you need to call it quits.... If your not happy in a relationship there is no point in being with that person!

babyboo117

replied on May 22nd, 2008

New User

im really sorry to here that. I am sorta in the same situation only its not the same. my boyfriend is just an person to me all the time and he puts other girls before me everyday! it sux... like it really sux. but al i can say is get out

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