well i know for me those are all syptoms i have.. i am 32 weeks preg and it sucks.. i feel hot all the time, i wake up at night and my hands are swollen, my throat hurts, i cough all the time alot in the first trimester, and yes you cough up flem, i see stars, i get pains in my stomach. you would know if you miscarried becuase you would see a little thing in the toilet and you would be in EXCRUCIATING pain so bad you couldn't walk, talk sit stand nothing.and as far as charlie horses, get use to them, i get them so bad at night it wakes me up, just make sure to rest and strech your muscles out.