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Q: message for preggo07
asked by: falafal4ever81 on March 5th, 2008
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to answer your question, the egg can get fertalized for about 24 hours and the sperm can live in you for a few days, so it is possible to have sex on monday and get pregnant on a wednesday.
i really hope that if you are not pregnant that you sit back and look at this situation. being a good parent means that you put your child first and that includes waiting until you are physically, emotionally and financially able to support your child as best as you can. every girl wants to have a baby at your age, but you need to look at the reasons objectivly. are you lonely? do you crave love? do you want attention? what makes you desire this commitment? please know that a baby will always take more than they can give. a baby cannot make you a better person, but you can do that for your baby. a baby cannot make you smarter, healthier, happier, etc... you do these things yourself, a baby may just make you want them more, but it is up to you. a baby that is a tool in its mothers life to serve her happiness will not be a happy baby.
best of luck
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Preggo07
replied on March 23rd, 2008
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Thanks a lot and just some news, I bought the pregnancy test myself and with my own money. It came out negative. Im actually pretty happy about it because I am partying more now and I can go out more and enjoy life without having to worry about a baby....thanks =]
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Mabel
replied on March 24th, 2008
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Preggo07 wrote:
Thanks a lot and just some news, I bought the pregnancy test myself and with my own money. It came out negative. Im actually pretty happy about it because I am partying more now and I can go out more and enjoy life without having to worry about a baby....thanks =]


This is such a great realization, Preggo! So much life to live without worrying about bottles and diapers and laundry and all that. Put it off until later - live first.

Have fun! Are you taking birth control?
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falafal4ever81
replied on March 24th, 2008
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ah! thats fantastic, good for you honey.
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