It could be pre-menopause. I'm 44 and thought I was pre-menopausing because I was having hot flashes and I had my period twice in June. My doctor said if I was pre-menopausing I would have skipped my period like you have. You might want to go visit your GYN. They can do a blood test to see if you are in pre-menopause. Many women start in their early 40s, even younger.

Thanks wendyrs, I think I will go to the Drs, best to get it checked out.

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Cheru

Yes it is. Like I said, that's what I thought was going on with me but apparently I was wrong. I had a horrible pain in my cervix when he examined me and I'm scheduled for an ultrasound on Friday. Hopefully everything will be fine but it's never good to assume.

I hope all goes well for you on Friday. I'm coming back as a man next time, they get off easy, us poor women have all the suffering !!

LOL, so true!! Thanks...Keep me posted on what you find out.

-Yes, you are definitey in menopause. That's a very normal symptom you are having.

im am 43,skipped april,may,period,went 4 a pap end of may,doctor says every thing looks fine,he did blood workup,and said i was not going through medapause,june period very light,spoty,dark at times,july no period,august 1 day of severe pain worst cramps in my life,2 days later bled light one day,,any ideas?im going nuts,,had cramps and no period around the last 4 months of last yr,so i had a D/C ,didnt even bleed after that precedure like i thought i would,when it comes to doctors.(who do you believe)i also have had numerous ultrasounds,,they keep saying everything looks good,,THEN WHATS UP,,,

MENOPAUSE...THE DOCORS ARE IDIOTS.

I agree with Raven. What happens is that in the beginning stages of menopause the blood work doesn't show the changes so they say it's not menopause when we all know that it is. These doctors are just getting worse and worse.

And also, the doctors seem to have a problem with the fact that women are going through menopause younger and younger. The textbooks say you go through it usually in your late forties and fifties. What they fail to tell women is that some can start in their 30's and even younger in some with other medical problems, and the whole process can take up to ten years to complete! Took me 10 years starting at 35!

i was told at 35 that i might be going through peri medapause or somethin like that ,ive had problems since then,i was getting sooooo frustrated,i myself felt somethin was wrong,and the doc,s kept saying,,nope your just fine,,lol

Hi my mam bin goin through the menopause for few yrs now. she hasn t had a period now in nearly two months on her last period there was a weird discharge at the end of it and nothin since. any ideas wat this is... she defo not pregnant?????