ok cyctotec also known as misoprostol is the pill that dilates your cervix- you take four of them-- some doctors say put two in each cheek others say insert them vaginally- whatever method you do, you do it one or two days after taking the first pill. both methods work in the exact same way. i placed them in my cheeks and for about an hour and then swallowed the rest. just follow whatever method your clincian tells you- both work fine though ive heard.
i went through it in early may of this year- i had the same worries that all of you are describing. everything turns out fine!!
ya and jeanne, the surgical method didnt sound good to me either- the medical abortion was way more natural to me, its almost like having a miscarriage. i liked that i didnt have to be put under, and that it happens from the comfort of my home.
jeanne or jveg if you want to talk about it some more with me and get all the details and your questions answered, feel free to send me a private message.
good luck everyone- let me know if you have any other questions