i'm having a problem right now. you see there is this girl i really like and she likes me but after our thanksgiving break i told her on AIM that my feelings for her have decreased so she said she did too so we agreed to be friends from that point and on. BUT since the day we got back from our break we been acting like what we said before never happened so i we just got done having the best saturday night ever we sat very close, we were talking alot, laughing and then when all my friends and hers were watching a movie i sat between her legs and laid on her chest and she wrapped her arms around me then i dont know why but i kissed her when it was time to go back into our dorms as the staff was rushing everyone out. but just 2 days ago i started to realize about what we were talking about before and asked her whatsup w that and she said well she honestly forgot about the friendship thing and so did i so we agreed we still like eachother so then i told her well? and her and her basketball team went to california to play in a tournment and i'm not sure if she'll feel the same way she felt before she left she might lose interest in me when she comes back or something. so now its day 2 without her and she'll be back on monday jan 18th duriing our second semester
PLEASE HELP I'M GOING THROUGH HARD HARD TIMES!
by the way we are freshmans in highschool
don't stress over this, I will say honestly when you broke up with someone, even if you want to stay friends, its always better to leave space between each other for a long time if after a month, you both moved on, you know it was for the best, if you both did not, well maybe there is still a spark somewhere.
It's normal that at the beginning, everything is all shiny and great and fun, but it is normal to get in the routine, get bored and to careless a little bit about each other, this is normal, on the other hand if you fight all the time its not good.
Don't stress on it, if its meant to break up, then let it be and move on, there is plenty of fish in this world!!!!!!!