i dont hnow wat to do.. the guy ive been seein has never taken me out on a date since we started seeing each other. its been 3 months now. when i talked to him about how i feel about him just coming over sexing me and then leaving right after or sometimes an hr later if im lucky and the fact that i only see him once a week or 1 every two weeks. he said i just need to let things roll on naturally. then he said i have issues, then at one point he said no sex no date. he also gave me some crap about how his baby mother will stop him seeing his son if she finds out he is seeing someone because they want to make the son believe they are one happy family.he got upset when i told him i told my family and friends i was dating him. i really like him.. havent slept in days coz ive been thinking abt wat to do.he is the first guy i let in since my first love. PLS ANY ADVICE WILL BE HELPFUL I NEED EVERYONES VIEW ON this.
Please drop this guy like a bad virus. He is using you for his own selfish, sexual behavior. Any man who lies to you and only interested in coming around for sex is a waste of your time and is an insult to your intelligence. His wife haven't a clue he is sleeping with you and her both. Love yourself enough to kick him to the curb. He has the nerves to say you have ISSUES? Pleaseeeeeeeee give me a break. Why do you think he has NEVER taken you out on a date after 3 months of coming around? He doesn't want the wife to know, he is afraid of running into her or someone that know him. Cut your loss and move past this creep to someone who isn't ashamed of you.
Re: matters of the heart( i kno this is a medical site but...)
i know this is a long time ago, but i only just read it. the guy is still in a relationship with the babies mother and hes a player. dont let the actions of ex boyfriends close your heart, the one thats meant for you might walk right past you, youll notice him, but wont be able to do anything about it cause your chained to the wrong guy..... in love.... trust your instincts, if it feels wrong, it probably is....EBH