My boyfriend and I are both virgins, and often, I masturbate by putting pressure on my lower abdomen. It feels good, and my boyfriend does it to me sometimes. I either masturbate with a full bladder, a pillow on my stomach, lying face down, or I push on my abdomen with my hands, while sitting. I don't orgasm solely by the abdominal pressure,, but it feels nice, like an erection pushing against your stomach. Is this dangerous or weird? Sometimes I push kind of hard, and every once in awhile, my abdomen is sore afterwords for a short time. Would it cause abdominal trauma or any types of cancers in the abdomen if you do it often? I wonder if anyone else does this?
When it comes to sex and masturbation, very little are weird. It is different and unusual though. You will have to learn to masturbate and orgasm in a more traditional way sooner or later. If not, you will not be able to orgasm during intercourse. It may require some work and time on your part to learn to orgasm differently. Don't give up. Many women that think they cannot reach orgasm give up too early.
Pressing anywhere cannot cause cancer. The fact that you are sore sometimes probably means that your body is not happy with this. If you press too hard you will do damage.
I have had this experience before in my life. It's not a regular practice but I get the idea of the sensation and how it feels good. I'm 45, never have had an issue orgasming and I think whatever you do is fine. In no way is it weird. As long as you and your partner work it out, whatever goes, goes. After you are no longer a virgin, this might turn into something else, but you'll figure this out as you go. No pressure to do it differently....
I can orgasm easily with clitoral stimulation. I just do this sometimes as well, while I'm waiting for my boyfriend to feel ready to have sex. I was just worried that it would cause some type of trauma or cancer (or both). I do press sort of hard, but after it is sore for awhile, the pain goes away. It isn't chronic pain. Thank you for your comments and advice