I need some help!! My boyfriend & I have been together nearly 2 years. I moved in with him after 8 months because everything was great, only to discover that he had a large amount of porn DVD's hidden in his wardrobe and also using the internet for videos, pictures anything, for masturbation purposes.

Our sex life was great for about the 1st four months then he just stopped wanting sex, this I later discovered was because he was masturbating most days in the morning, so by the time I was seeing him in the evening he couldn't get an erection when we went to bed.

I have issues with porn which he is fully aware of and have told him that if he needs porn etc in his life then I can't be in a relationship with him. He has told me that it's me that he wants and he doesn't need it. I don't mind him liking it but I woild prefer it as a couple thing or not at all, but there are so many times when he has promised to stay away, but has returned to the internet to look up pornographic websites regardless.

If there were not all the lies and he was honest that he was using porn, he knows that I would leave, but even that doesn't seem to make a difference, as the other week he came home pissed out of his head and porn on TV was the first thing he did when he came in!

I leave for work earlier than him everyday and I know that he is masturbation as soon as I'm gone because of the mess he leave's behind! Plus, he cannot get an full erection if I try anything with him in the evening, this is another indication that he has been masturbating.

Please can anyone help? and has anyone else ever been in this situation and how did you deal with this??