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Q: Masterbation technique

asked by: elliestar on May 10th, 2008

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I'm an 18year old girl and am worried that the way I masterbate is abnormal.

When I was about 13 yrs old, I came across my old baby bouncer (the type that hangs from door frames and lets babies boing up and down). Out of curiosity I hung the thing up and cut a long story short ended up sitting naked in it and having the most amazing orgasm.

It was so good that I ended up making some modifications to the bouncer (i.e. a bigger harness) and used it more and more to enjoy myself.

I'm now 18 and still use the baby bouncer to orgasm when I can. I don't know why I have such great orgasms when using it, but I can't match the feeling I get bouncing up and down in the thing!

The problem is the bouncer is obviously not designed to hold the weight of an 18year old girl and I've noticed that some parts look like they might not last much longer. I've also noticed some cracks in the wall above the door frame.

I am considering buying a new baby bouncer and continuing to masterbate in this way, but I know this is not a normal way to orgasm and think I would like to stop, but only if I can recreate the feeling in another way.

I feel unable to discuss this with any of my friends as I'm worried they will just think it is plain weird. I'd be interested to hear if anyone has had any similar experiences and offer any advice please...or am I just abnormal?

Thanx,
Ellie x

Replies(9)

Maddie34

replied on May 10th, 2008

Moderator

Although I didn't masturbate like you, I've always masturbated in an unconventional way too. It's not weird, its just what felt good to you so you kept doing it, I can relate to that Smile

If you want to stop masturbating like that, try not masturbating at all for a while. And then learn to get that feeling another way without the baby bouncer. It's going to take some practice getting the same feeling. Sometimes I still lapse and go back to how I used to masturbate, but I've noticed I've been able to orgasm during sex easier when I masturbate the more conventional way.

Georgia59

replied on May 12th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

My advice is to find a good vibrator or something and give it a try - it's a lot more convenient and you might find that you like it even better!

elliestar

replied on May 12th, 2008

New User

Hi,

I have tried vibrators but I just dont get the same feeling. I do masturbate 'normally' as well, but it doesnt really compare and I always come back to my bouncer.

I'm not sure I have the will power to stop using the bouncer to be honest. But it is difficult finding privacy and am worried about getting caught or it breaking while I'm in it.

Ellie.

jessamyn

replied on May 12th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

isnt it the same idea as like a sex swing?

Georgia59

replied on May 12th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

yeah, although those are usually permanently installed. I think the problem is that even if the swing could hold the weight of an adult, the door frame probably couldn't (which is why sex swings are usually screwed into ceilings using heavy duty stuff)

mlynn

replied on May 13th, 2008

New User

Actually masterbating in a "baby bouncer" isin't that "weird"...when we grow up we have "sex swings" which can be used in a similar way...but at 18 If you are still living with your parents...I don't know that you would want to buy that just yet!! Pretty embarsing conversation to have if your parents ever stumble upon it. Sexuality is personal and is exercised in diffrent ways.

elliestar

replied on May 13th, 2008

New User

Excuse my ignorance, but whats a sex swing??

I don't think I can screw things in to the ceiling as my parents would notice.

The door frame has held me for a long time and still does, but there are signs it is starting to feel the strain. Think its more a problem with the wall. At least I think it is - maybe I'm being paranoid.

Or maybe i could just work my way around all the door frames in the house!

mlynn

replied on May 13th, 2008

New User

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_swing

elliestar

replied on May 15th, 2008

New User

Oh I see...I think!

Not sure there's much chance of me getting one of those to be honest. I think the bouncer is more discreet!

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