have your lover do it to you, its hotter and they love that they can do it to you. You will have to teach them it may take the lover time, its much better when you have someone to hold and kiss you when its is over with. I only do it once a month but never have the time. I agree it relives a lot of stress and it gets better even better when were older and with lovers. Share it with a lover. Women have different kinds of orgasms I like it a lot with a man just to feel him close and I get wet all over him, but alone it like an explosion and does feel better, but more just seems like a stress reliever for me.
I also like to masturbate before I go to bed. It helps me to fall asleep as well. I love using my vibrators. My Mystic Wand is very powerful and I am able to have multiple orgasms from using it. I love reading erotic stories or watching porn while masturbating. When I think of scenarios, I don't involve myself in the fantasy. I usually think of sexual scenarios involving unknown people. Anyway, I just got another vibrator from an online site SpicyGear, which is more of rabbit type of vibe. I can't wait to use it tonight!
I'm glad you started this post. It true that you don't hear much about female masterbation. I wonder what is normal. Sometimes I will masterbate 3 times in one day. Sometimes only a couple of times per week.