I'm an 18year old girl and am worried that
the way I masterbate is abnormal.
When I was about 13 yrs old, I came across
my old baby bouncer (the type that hangs
from door frames and lets babies boing up
and down). Out of curiosity I hung the
thing up and cut a long story short ended
up sitting naked in it and having the most
amazing orgasm.
It was so good that I ended up making some
modifications to the bouncer (i.e. a
bigger harness) and used it more and more
to enjoy myself.
I'm now 18 and still use the baby bouncer
to orgasm when I can. I don't know why I
have such great orgasms when using it, but
I can't match the feeling I get bouncing
up and down in the thing!
The problem is the bouncer is obviously
not designed to hold the weight of an
18year old girl and I've noticed that some
parts look like they might not last much
longer. I've also noticed some cracks in
the wall above the door frame.
I am considering buying a new baby bouncer
and continuing to masterbate in this way,
but I know this is not a normal way to
orgasm and think I would like to stop, but
only if I can recreate the feeling in
another way.
I feel unable to discuss this with any of
my friends as I'm worried they will just
think it is plain weird. I'd be interested
to hear if anyone has had any similar
experiences and offer any advice
please...or am I just abnormal?
Thanx,
Ellie x
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-10-08 23:35pm
Although I didn't masturbate like you,
I've always masturbated in an
unconventional way too. It's not weird,
its just what felt good to you so you kept
doing it, I can relate to that
If you want to stop masturbating like
that, try not masturbating at all for a
while. And then learn to get that feeling
another way without the baby bouncer. It's
going to take some practice getting the
same feeling. Sometimes I still lapse and
go back to how I used to masturbate, but
I've noticed I've been able to orgasm
during sex easier when I masturbate the
more conventional way.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 05-12-08 15:31pm
My advice is to find a good vibrator or
something and give it a try - it's a lot
more convenient and you might find that
you like it even better!
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elliestar
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Joined: 10 May 2008 Posts: 4
Posted: 05-12-08 15:42pm
Hi,
I have tried vibrators but I just dont get
the same feeling. I do masturbate
'normally' as well, but it doesnt really
compare and I always come back to my
bouncer.
I'm not sure I have the will power to stop
using the bouncer to be honest. But it is
difficult finding privacy and am worried
about getting caught or it breaking while
I'm in it.
Ellie.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 05-12-08 16:40pm
isnt it the same idea as like a sex swing?
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Georgia59
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Posted: 05-12-08 16:59pm
yeah, although those are usually
permanently installed. I think the problem
is that even if the swing could hold the
weight of an adult, the door frame
probably couldn't (which is why sex swings
are usually screwed into ceilings using
heavy duty stuff)
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mlynn
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Posted: 05-13-08 14:56pm
Actually masterbating in a "baby bouncer"
isin't that "weird"...when we grow up we
have "sex swings" which can be used in a
similar way...but at 18 If you are still
living with your parents...I don't know
that you would want to buy that just yet!!
Pretty embarsing conversation to have if
your parents ever stumble upon it.
Sexuality is personal and is exercised in
diffrent ways.
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elliestar
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Joined: 10 May 2008 Posts: 4
Posted: 05-13-08 14:57pm
Excuse my ignorance, but whats a sex
swing??
I don't think I can screw things in to the
ceiling as my parents would notice.
The door frame has held me for a long time
and still does, but there are signs it is
starting to feel the strain. Think its
more a problem with the wall. At least I
think it is - maybe I'm being paranoid.
Or maybe i could just work my way around
all the door frames in the house!
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