I don't have such fantasies myself, but I know a few people who has such fantasies. Just be glad, some men actually want their wives to have sex with other men.

-Peter

Hey I got an idea,

I'm not so sure if it'll work

but what if you take a video of your husband giving you a massage and then watch it later together?

Will that work?

-Peter

hi,
thanks for a good idea. i will talk about it. but i know he will say that video cannot be exotic ,,,or more than real....
so i am afraid he will refuse....
thanks

mei3na4,
There are many men with this kind of fantacies, this is normal in some relationships. My next door neighbors has been in this for years. He allows his wife to make love to other men to boost up his sex life with her. It is total up to you that you go alone with it or not, but in some relationships it is normal! If you deside to do this, be sure to use protection, and I will advise you to do it with someone that you know, and trust.

bo21

what... sry but he's crazy to me(cant call it love), that's sick... and you others that say it's normal, your sick too, dont tell me that you would like ur girlfriend/wife to do it with someone else infront of you, i cant imagine the girl i love doing it with someone else, i bet it's not just a massage what he wont's (or just for a start). So to me, it's not OK (in this world are all kind of sick people though)

I guess isn't the content that turns on your husband, but, the role of being a director of this scenario.
From your other posts I realized that having a control over your sexual acts is what he likes or needs most.
Try to change the roles with your husband.
Instead thinking about fulfilling his fantasies, try to discover your own ones and let him do it for you.
Other option is to let him fulfill his fantasy with another woman instead you, and, you can ask in turn to do your own fantasy with another man (this can be just a romantic dinner with another man)
I'm sure your husband won't be so into his fantasies after that.

Since you feel hurt, this can't be normal for you and you mustn't do it for anyone.
Think about yourself at the first place!

Best wishes!
Marija

dear friends,
hi,
thanks for your kind opinions . ....i feel much better than before,,,
my husband would never go to another women,,,i know ,,he will only tell me to do ......and he wants to see too........its just sick wish for me...
i keep on thinking on this issue,,,but no solution,,,,
i will keep on thinking ,,,,,,till the time it is solved,,,
thanks for all.