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marriage...short lived?

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well Ive been married to my husband since april, shortly after I found out I was pregnant. well I thought I knew him well but obviously not, he had told me that he was a firefighter but sadly he had lied to me infact he was unemployed and at the tine that he married me he was also married to his ex-wife, now I stay at my mothers while he sleeps at his wifes house with her, I dont know what to do, Im a mess
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replied August 2nd, 2008
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I am so sorry. I have been threw something like this but we didn't get completely married almost though. I know the feeling. I am sorry. If you need anything I am here.
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replied August 2nd, 2008
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Re: marriage...short lived?
gabby734 wrote:
well Ive been married to my husband since april, shortly after I found out I was pregnant. well I thought I knew him well but obviously not, he had told me that he was a firefighter but sadly he had lied to me infact he was unemployed and at the tine that he married me he was also married to his ex-wife, now I stay at my mothers while he sleeps at his wifes house with her, I dont know what to do, Im a mess


Wow, this is a really sad situation. You need will need a lawyer to prosecute. Obviously this relationship is not going to work out for you since

1. It's invalid in the first place since he was already married and
2. because his attentions were elsewhere and
3. he was starting out with pretenses.

I'm glad that you have your mother's to go to while this is going on, at least you have place to stay. But you need to prosecute him as a bigamist....

I'm sorry you will have to go through this while you are pregnant too. But if you have a good lawyer, he will take care of the hard parts. You need to concentrate on your baby as well and try to stay as healthy as possible for yourself and your baby too. I wish you all the best.
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replied January 22nd, 2009
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I am sorry to hear that you went through such a terrible experience. But,pls don't let this experience taint your perception of other men. There is one good gu out there who will treat you 10 times better that that jerk!! Surround yourself with positive people and things! Always treat people with kindness even when fondness isn't in our hearts for them,'cause what goes around eventually comes back around!! Go after him legally for any kind of financial support for you and your child. Make sure you have a really good male role model for your kid to help him,or her develop a healthy perception and trust in good men. Look for someone you can trust to provide your child with a good male role model Next,read up on credible schools to see if they offer distance education to help give u the knowledge and skills needed to help both u and your child get ahead financially in this world!! I will pray for Mr.Right for you,but meanwhile,I say just concentrate on pouring your time and focus on positive things to help you and your baby!! Good luck and never give up no matter how hard things get!! Prepare for today,so you can get ahead tommorow!!
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