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Q: Marriage before birth
asked by: Mariee2009 on June 18th, 2009
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What is everyones opinion. I would like to know. My boyfriend and I would like to get married before the birth because his family and we too, think that it would be in our best interest and the best interest of the child. I am 17, and he is 20. We are young, but we get along, and plan on raising this child together. Just wanted a little voice from other people. Thanks =] (and my dad has already said if I want to, he approves)
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ServiceU
replied on June 19th, 2009
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hello, mariee2009
when is your due date? what are your plans? for example if yall not living with each other right now.
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Mariee2009
replied on June 19th, 2009
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We are moving in with eachother in August 2009. I just have to help my parents and stuff over the summer. My due date is February 28th 2010. I am only about 4 weeks pregnant right now.
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ServiceU
replied on June 25th, 2009
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so it sounds like you just found out you are pregnant. congratulations! i also assume that you will be almost 18 years old when the baby is born.
i just wish our youth would wait for things that your having to deal with currently because of the stresses of being married and raising a family.
i never been married, but i have lived with two guys in my life. and man oh man!!!!!
anyway, i wish you well and all the happiness that you deserve. i would hope that you would make good decisions for not just yourself but your child also.
much love
amber
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lknisely
replied on July 8th, 2009
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Just remeber marriage is a very big deal if your going to do it make sure its forever. Though you are having a child that doesnt mean you need to get married. Your young your intrest may change and though its hard to have a child out of wed lock it will work out.Focus on your relationship and really decide can you be with your man forever. Im sure he would be a great dad married or not.
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