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Q: male on disabilty won't go to dr.
asked by: tippiecowboy on September 20th, 2008
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male on disablity won't go to dr. gets mad at everything / every one. He thinks he is only one getting hurt feelings but has pushed each of his step-daughters and his daughters away after they become teens. He blames lack of erection on that his stress over them being phyiscal [youngest is 17] and I am to blame for them being bixxhs. I knew he was a handful when I married him- but it has gotten worse- he hoards junk, takes things back from those he gave things to, refuses to admit he has a problem that a dr can see or fix. I have written to SS office about them interveneing but I get no response. I am afraid he will get angry enough to get violent as he has struck one of my daughters,and then when released from jail overnight, the charges were eventually dropped cause my daughter left town. I do not want him in jail- but the police can only do so much.
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zigemyster
replied on September 20th, 2008
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Maybe he needs to stay in jail just a tad bit longer. Hit another person, even his own child...that is wrong on so many levels.

He sounds like a bully and that is not your fault nor your daughters. He does not want to take responsibility for his own actions...sounds familiar. I left my ex approx 17 years ago and haven't looked back...went through hell before it got better but the trip was worth it.

What you describe he has a lot of issues going on. Have you considered leaving him and let him lie in his own misery? If he is not happy then why should anyone else be?

You said you don't want to go through another divorce (your other post)...how about a legal separation, maybe that will wake him up? If not, then make it legal and move on. You and your children deserve so much more and it is out here, trust me, it is.

~Zig
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