my boyfriend of 8yrs is 31yrs old and has hard nipples. they have been that way ever since we met. i heard yrs ago he use to use steroids and he got very mad at me! could that be why they are always hard they never get soft and they are alomst as big as mine when mine are hardand mine are about the size of a quater or little more when soft plus they are pretty long when erect i breast fed 2 children. but could that be from steroids, cocaine or any other drug use???? he has used cocaine(crack) for a long time aswell. please help me!!! thanks