Honey, this will not screw up your relationship, it will only make it stronger. Believe me, I have experenced thie. There are many men just like me who would love for their wife or girl friend to go out and get laid by another man and come home and tells all about her exoerence, it will make the love making at home much better. If a man ash his woman to make love to another man, and she does it, he will love her for honoring his desires.

bo21, that is the most screwed up thing i've heard!!! lol how can cheating on your wife make your relationship stonger?? If you want to have multiple sex partners, don't get married or don't be in a relationship...It is plain and simple.

i agree with QueenB88. that's just insane for a husband to even want his wife to cheat on him. i'm married and i'd never want my hubby to be sleeping with another woman and thinking it makes our love stronger! Oh but no!

Thanks love_pinkish !!

I agree with you both! That just sounds messed up! who wants their wife or girlfriend to sleep with someone else...oh wait Bo21 does!

yay! what does that tell you catperson514..3 to 1 say bo21 is WRONG.

there are some people that do have this desire..why? who knows..personally I DONT approve of it and think it would only lead to jealousy and insecurity...just be sure that he isn't trapping you..you know pushing you to see how far you'll really go with another guy...my bf once admitted while intoxicated that he wanted to do a mmf threesome with me..i'm very personal about my sex life, he's the only guy i've been with and only guy i'm interested in being with..basically i made it clear in the nicest way possible that it was me or the fantasy bc i'm not willing to sacrafice my body like that so a man that i do not care about can have his way with me...no way...so if you do decide to do it, just make sure you think about YOURSELF first..are YOU ok with it? dont do it just to satisfy him..if there is ANY doubt at all about if this would cause problems in your relationship then DO NOT go through with it, it would only lead to regret i'm sure...however, if its something you and your boyfriend have thoroughly discussed and something you want to do...then..no one is holding you back...but i'm with the others..a relationship to me is monogomous...bring protection if you decide to..you dont wanna be stuck with an std

My husband and I have had a similar fantasy as you describe. We have been married for over 20 years and it still works for us. It is a real turn-on for us and keeps things exciting. The key to this is honesty........no lying. Your partner is giving you an opportunity to have some sensual fun....just relax and go for it when it happens. Just make sure that you use protection when you are with someone else.

Thats all I'm saying; what is for some marriages may not be for other, but for me and my mate, it is pure fun. After being together for so many years, this will only put fire back in the bedroom! Just make sure you use protection when making love to someone else, and make sure your partner is getting a grill out of watching you get laid!

Like I said earlier, this works well for both of us. My husband usually travels for work during the week and on those nights and occasionally on some weekends, I get to party with friends. I have two other men.....one in his early 30's and another my age.....48.who I have been seeing for a long time. I don't see them at the same time. It is not cheating as I tell my husband everything.....and when we are making love.........it is so passionate. I feel very fulfilled and knowing my husband wants this.......why not? He loves to pamper me and knowing I am making him happy makes it all worthwhile.

To FriskyFox,
Please post me in the PRIVATE section so that we may share helpful informations. I, to, am a very open minder person, and I need someone like you who don't have any hangups when it come to pleasing their mates. I think it is wonderful being honest to your mate, he will love you for that!

How in the world, to share my wife with another man is going to make me happy? unless I have some issues myself and I am doing the same thing. I just dont want to know about pregnancy or infectious diseases, you guys are probably spending a tone in both things. I dont know but this is just sick... No wonder Hepatitis b and C and HIV are rampant, if people are doing all this kind of sick sex...

Well Vulcan.........You should be selective in any partner you choose.In addition, you should be practicing safe sex......i.e. condoms. My husband is turned on by the thought of me with another man......I am just doing what pleases the man I have loved for over 20 years.

Catperson514- If you decide to pursue this activity with someone.........please ensure your other partners use a condom. You will enjoy yourself that much more if you feel protected. Fill us in if you have any experiences..and enjoy yourself! It would be nice to hear another woman's experience.

How in the world, to share my wife with another man is going to make me happy? unless I have some issues myself and I am doing the same thing. I just dont want to know about pregnancy or infectious diseases, you guys are probably spending a tone in both things. I dont know but this is just sick... No wonder Hepatitis b and C and HIV are rampant, if people are doing all this kind of sick sex.

Vucan,
Only a fool will go out there and have unprotected sex in these days and time!
In every case that I know, the man will not put his wife at risk. The woman knows the men she's dealing with, plus protection is used. To those of you who oposes the idea, theres nothing wrong with your opinion, an opinion is just like as a** hole, everybody has one! I'd rather have a relation in which my mate and I are open with the issue than to have one where she's sneaking behind my back and doing these things! Don't be so quick to judge others!!!!

thanks all for input . opinions were very honest and helpful. we are still working out the parameters. but i feel more cnfident that this is actually a fantasy and not a deviant behavior. just discussing it is a huge turn on!! hope the reality will be also.
catperson514

Dear Catperson514...It sounds like you and your guy are doing this in a smart way. The more you discuss this with each other....the more comfortable you will be with this. I hope you enjoy your encounters and sharing them with your man. You will enjoy it from both sides....knowing your man is happy and your own physical pleasure...Keep us posted on how things develop. Have your fun!

it isn't even a relationship..i dont get it..why do you want to promise yourself to someone and be in love with someone yet have an open door policy when it comes to sharing their body with someone...if i ever saw another woman touch my man..or if i ever saw my man touch another woman..id be gone out that door SO fast..i just think its unacceptable..why? why do you want to share someone you're so in love with? i dont understand it i really dont...is it insecurity? do you think that maybe if you give him/her PERMISSION to do this so long as they tell you about it then it must not be cheating and therefore its ok? i really TRY to understand these sort of ideas and fantasies..i just cant...bc i know how much i love my boyfriend and how heartbroken i'd be if he were with anyone other than me..he's mine and only mine, call me selfish but i just believe thats the way it should be with someone you're in love with...if you're happy with the one you love, why would you even WANT another man/woman to have sex with you? is there something missing?

hi all, still not happpening . went on to yahoo personals today and discovered the man whom ithought was in love with me is still on . so much for honesty!!!. so now i'm extremely hurt and happy that i did not go through with this whole thing. trust is key. and i feel totally betrayed. hve not yet confronted him. Any thoughts. is he a womanizer, or other manipulative type. i can't believe i got sucked in!!. however i was going to go there .

worked out issues with personals, he's not on, picture stays in 4 months,. but no communication. i was relieved and was hoping there was an explanation. anyway finally did the deed.. it did have the desired affect. he's constantly aroused. once i got into it. the situation and talking about it also turns me on.. great sex,love etc. will do it again.