hello
i have a serious problem. my penis is just 4 inches long (erect) and not very thick. all my gfs were quite disapointed (though none of them told me i now they were)
do you consider using such devices safe ? i am desperate, i tried all kinds of herb and chemical treatment and they simply do not work

i tried also jelqing, but i read it is definitely very unsafe
i do not have money for surgery, plus i don't trust plastic surgeons
i am really desperate, please don't tell me relationship is not about sex and length of penis, i had 2 longterm relationships and i can tell it is not true, sex is important, women get sick of cunnilingus after some time, i experienced this with all of my exes - sudden loss of sexual drive, complaints about headaches and other bull... and i found my last one with another guy later on
i cannot find any bad reviews or complaints about this kind of penis stretching devices, i searched internet deeply and many times too, all i can find are discussions about how pills are worthless and jelqing is harmfull but not a single complaint about these stretchers so right now i am in a mood of believing it really works.
please help me with my decision, any people participating here who have experience with this stuff ???
i am really depressed after my last break-up, attending therapy sessions... i feel very bad, please help