have u had any kids

You can tighten the muscled of the vagina by doing Kegel exercises.

Yes, Kegels. If you don't know what those are, just flex the muscle down there, like you are stopping your urine.

I would be careful putting anything on your vagina, especially stuff that isn't meant to be there--like food. You may end up with an infection.

Otherwise, I have heard there are surgical options, especially for women who have had a lot of kids, so things are really stretched out down there. If the exercises don't work, you may consult with your gynecologist about the surgery or other medical options.

ehh im only 15 and didnt have kids or anything recently "naturally like that" its basically the outer layer thats really big i hate it...no surgery for me too so

I thought you wanted to know how to make the inside, the vagina, smaller and tighter.
Many women find their outer genitalia unattractive. I'm sure your appearance is normal. I don't know when our feminine parts became so disgusting to us but that thought is WRONG, WRONG, WRONG. Every part of us is beautiful. Not only that but men have no problem with the way our genitals look, only we seem to. If you are comparing yourself to women in magazines and porno films, don't- that is not a realistic representation of women. They have been air brushed, have softening filters, great lighting... The women with 'perfect' genitalia have probably had surgery to look that way.

i dont understand usually i get compliments from guys about this. i dont know what the big deal is.

I'm not sure whether you are refering to the labia majora or the surrounding skin in that area?

There are exercises that can tone this area such as pelvic floor and inner thigh.

This sounds to me like a self esteem issue rather than anything physiological.

i m confused also. is she talking about where her public hair is, or her clitoris, or the opening of her vagina. when she said swollen it made me think of the clitoris, but then she said stretchy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
a lot of women dont like the way their vagina looks. you think that's something, i had to watch a camera go inside me and i watched on the screen what it looks like.
but anyway, when you get married your husband will love it to death, trust me.

everyone this is the same girl that post a question on how to gain weight. she is 5'9" 107 ibs. so it seem like she's not happy with her appearance at all.
didnt i tell you that your fearfully and wonderfully made Psalms 139:14
every hair on your head is counted. even if your hair falls out every day there's someone that loves you enough to know how many pieces is left.
you are build like a model and you need to learn to love yourself. as i m telling you this, i tell myself the same thing.

You can strengthen the muscles (as posted above) by doing kegels, which you can "flex" while your partner is inside you to make it feel tighter. As far as making your vagina smaller or tighter, it is not possible. Nor will your vagina "loosen" after too much sex. (You can google these things and find the same answer!) If you are uncomfortable with the size of your labia, that can only get smaller with surgery... but men honestly don't care about the size of that, just the sensation! I wouldn't even worry about it...

omg well sorry if im not the most happiest person in the world!?what?

If you talking about your vaginal inside, you can douche with allum(season aisle in the grocery store) and that will help. You dont need a lot and if you use once every two weeks, you shouldnt get a infection. Trust me it works, it makes your vaginal tighter.