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wahollymolly

November 15th, 2009

I've been having sex with a guy I've been dating for about a month, and we've had sex about 15 times. Everytime after he finishes, he doesn't really let me know he's cumming, but he will ask me if I did. If I didn't I don't lie haha, like twice I was like "I'M THERE!!"....oh wait no I'm not. But for the most part the sex is really good. Thing is sometimes I think he's lying to me when he says that he came. I think only 4 times, through blowjobs and sex, did I actually SEE the cum. All the other times the condom is whisked away to a location I'm unsure of.

For some odd reason I'm starting to think he's lying to me about cumming. A couple of times he's ejaculated inside me, which is bad I know, and when I shower it smells like the cum. But, haha, I don't know why I'm trippin about this. I think I need some sort of visual confirmation.

Would he just lie and say he came to make me feel better?

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W0LF

replied November 15th, 2009

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More likely he'd lie to protect his own ego but it's certainly possible he's concerned about your self-esteem. Either way it's not the worst possible case. If he's lying it's to keep things working in the relationship.

If you suspect he's lying to you conront him. Next time the condom is whisked away tell him you want to see it, be insistant. If there's no ejaculate ask him what's going on. Lying of any kind isn't the best thing for a relationship.

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wahollymolly

replied November 16th, 2009

haha thank you wolf...during the last encounter (last night) I in fact was concious and looked for the cum. I found it about 5 times.

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