Ask your mom to take you to the doctor and if she asks why...tell her you are having stomach pains that don't feel normal.

Best Wishes,

Zig

May I ask how old you are? If you are driving age do you have a local health department you can go to if going to the doctor is not a choice? There are several things that could be going on. STD, UTI, Bladder Infection, etc. You definitely need to get this checked out. In the mean time practice abstinence.

im 19 :/ im just not close with my mom. im not really close with anyone in my family..the only person i have is my boyfriend. i work 45 hours a week so im also very stressed. but yeah, i just made a doctors appointment. thank you so much for you help and advice.

Pebbles, so you are a loner? Not a bad thing. You are not close with your mom because you cannot relate? 19 and having sex for the first time is not something any mother wants to really hear but considering your age, your work ethics, maybe this could be something you could address with your mother? No, not all the details but enough to let her be there for you. I know you are at a time in your life where you feel "the boyfriend" is the only outlet you have? Totally normal! Just a little reminder family is family. You will understand that a little more through your years. Try to open the door a little for your mom. Talk to your boyfriend and make sure you both practice abstinence until you have a "go" from the doctor. Let me know how things turn out. Sometimes bleeding isnt that uncommon. But considering you have just ventured into new waters its better to get checked by your gynecologist. Also I hope you have been practicing safety

im doing alot better and i have talked with my mother and boyfriend. thanks so much for everything.