Well honey having sex at 13! sweetie that's bad..but I'm not here to judge...As to your problems well..You could be pregnant but you would not be able to tell this early...you will have to wait a couple of weeks or until you miss a period and take a hpt......Am not to sure why you are experiencing cramps..although it could be because of sex...was that your first time?..this could be a reason why.....I don't know what else to suggest really honey....If the pain hasn't gone in a few more days you should visit a doctor...And if your going to have sex from now on please use protection...You really don't want a baby at your age you are still a childs yourself hun and you need to live your life and have fun....Just my advice to you...wouldn't want you to ruin your life Good luck Jenny

Oakiee. Well no. its not my first time. My first time was like uhmmm in october. But this time was ruffer than others but i dont know if it could have to do with anything. =\ Yaa. Well to tell if im pregnat or not i can take a home pregnacy test, and than take another or so to make sure the results are true. Idk. =) well thanks. and i know. Imma go get the pill soon. =(

Good stay safe...Jenny

I know.. I really hope im not preggo tho.! After dis im using condoms all the time !!!

Good good

=)

In response to J3nnyuk:
A 13-year old is not a child. If her body is ready to fall pregnant, then she's ready to have sex and be a mother. Just you try not having sex, J3nnyuk. Let's stop being so holier-than-thou and live in the real world. Set aside your cultural prejudices. The only moral issue here is that Hunnieboo doesn't seem to be married / in a steady relationship. Moral hypocrites won't let her marry, but she should make sure the man is ready to commit to her before giving him what he wants. If this isn't what she wants then, again, that's her business.

i just got off my period an now my lower stomach is hurting just about everyday. is it because of sex...

You wouldn't die in childbirth the chances of that are extremely slim...and I agree that abortion is cruel but if you are pregnant ,which I honestly doubt, adoption is an option, and it's true you will love your baby after carrying it for nine months but if you really love it you will do what's best for it and give it to a family that can support it. You are awfully young to be having sex but I understand and you need to tell your parents that your having sex so they can put you on birth control I promise they'll still love you but they will be upset for a while but in the end it's best for everyone, especially you.

You probably are experiencing appendicitis. Go get it checked out. You aren't pregnant. Stop having sex & get an education & grow up first. You don't sound mature enough to even raise a child. There will be plenty of time later in your life to enjoy a sexual relationship...these years are for being a kid!!

jkl2009 an appendicitis is on your lower Right side so scratchthat

While I agree that you are awful young to be havinf sex. If you are old enough to have sex, and get possibly pregnant, then you are old enough to deliver a baby. Chances of dying in childbirth today is very rare, and is usually caused by some underlying issue, not the pregnancy its self. Listen little one, you need to be more careful. I will tell you like the others, you shouldn't be having sex, that being said you already have and face an awful grownup descision, but you have also acted as an grownup by having sex so early in your young life.
Do yourself a favor, wait till your period is due, if you don't have it with in a day or two, go get a test. WHATEVER the test is, you need to sit down with your parents and tell them what is going on. Be sure to tell the that you were SO scared, and still are by telling them. They will be upset, as someone who loves you dearly would be at such news. Then if the test is positive, discuss with your parents, not your boyfriend, your parents what your options are. Yes abortion is one that you can choose. But think of this. You are already scared because of the possible pregnancy, don't harm yourself any further by having an abortion done. There are adoption agencies out there, where the adoptive parents will pay for all of your medical care. There are even options of an "open" adoption, where they will send you pictures of your little bundle as he/she grows. Then maybe later in life you can have a "friendship" with this child. PLEASE let your parents know, they love you and will support you, even if they are upset with you. Keep us posted, and little one, your not alone.