I think you need to relax your muscles for a little bit, and no, you aren't a pansy lol. Some muscle problems can be terribly painful, especially when your back is involved.
Here are a few things that I think are/will solve the problem.
You need to drink much more water. Keep yourself well hydrated.
You might be vitamin deficient. Taking vitamins, plus increasing your intake of potassium, magnesium, and calcium will keep your muscles healthy and flexible.
I usually find myself with muscle problems if I am deficient, and taking some magnesium and potassium softens everything right up.
If that doesn't help, then you can go to the doctor, although I do think this isn't going to be something that you will have to take to them.... Laying off the weights for a while is probably a good idea though...taking a break and letting your muscles get back to a more healthy condition by taking the above and drinking lots of water is probably the best for them.