Low Sex drive in young males

So when you asked him why he doesn't want to be with you sexually, what was his answer?

He says he just has no interest in sex. he is very affectionet with me. He kisses me, holds my hand, tells me he loves me all the time. But when it come to sex he just says he has no interest in it

You mentioned in another post that your boyfriend was in prison for a year...Many men are forceably raped by other men while in prison...Kind of a fact of life...It is possible that this may have something to do with his problem....Take care...

Caroline

Cheryl19
Prison doesn't alter libido. It sounds like what your boyfriend is saying is legitimate. You haven't mentioned any contradiction. He just doesn't need sex like you do. You should take some time and seriously evaluate if your boyfriend is able to meet your needs in the relationship.

I do want to add this to my post...Whether this has anything to do with your relationship with your young man, I don't know...However, I do know of two marriages that have failed after prison life..Not that they embrace another type of life style, but that confusion and shame tore them apart...

As a woman who also loves sex and has been married for over 51 years, my best advice to you is do not marry him unless he sexually satisfies you all the way....What and who you are as a woman will still grow...You have only just begun...Take care..

Caroline

Well I think he should talk to a professional about this. On the other side there are people that don't like to have sex that often. Maybe he is just like that. Was he always like this or just lately?

My wife's sex drive and stamina are very high and mine is very low. One of the best ways I have found to satisfy her in bed is to have MFM threesomes with our friend and share her with him. I know that I can't satisfy her in bed like she deserves, does that upset me, it did before we started having MFM threesomes but not anymore. My wife deserves to be satisfied in bed as much as she satisfies me in bed, MFM threesomes and sharing/trading spouses with our friends is how I accomplish that. This arrangement has been working for the 4 of us for several years. His wife has a very low sex drive and stamina like me. We (his wife and I) are happy knowing that our spouses are taking care of the each other's sexual needs and not going else were. I Love my Wife very much and will do anything for her and I know she Loves me and would do anything for me.

We have been sharing spouses for over 25 years - It keeps getting better in and out of the bedroom.