I am very concerned about my partner of 4 years, he is a 27 year old male and I have always had concerns that he's not totally balanced but have never brought the subject up with him, the longer we are together the worse he seems to get.
He will go through weeks of being fine but then something will set him and he'll completely turn on me, will rant for hours, sulk, yell at me, throw insult after insult at me, threaten to leave me over and over again, tells me i'm ruining his life and if only he could find that perfect girl his life would be complete.
After this he may sulk and give me the silent treatment for days/weeks/months even and I will have to walk on eggshells at all times and then suddenly he will snap out of it and be back to normal again but will not discuss what may have happened previously, he even seems to forget about it. Like he was possessed and something took his over.
He does do recreational drugs at times also which always leads to days of bad behaviour.
His other symptoms include over analaysing life and situations, paranoia, neurosis and over defensiveness.
Can anyone help with this?